The quote “What you focus on, you get more of” is widely attributed to Zig Ziglar, a well-known motivational speaker and author. While the exact phrasing may vary slightly across sources, the essence of the quote aligns closely with Ziglar’s teachings on mindset, focus, and personal development. But he wasn’t the first person to make his point.
Wise King Solomon said in Proverbs 18 verse 21 NWT:
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, those who love to use it will eat its fruitage.
How to be an encouragement to others.
Here’s some ways to focus on others good qualities.
- Actively listen and observe: Pay attention to people’s actions, efforts, and strengths.
- Practice gratitude: Regularly reflect on what you appreciate about someone.
- Give specific compliments: Instead of generic praise, highlight precise qualities or actions.
- Look for effort and improvement: Recognize people’s hard work and progress, not just results.
- Ask others about their positive experiences with the person: This can help you see qualities you might have missed.
- Put yourself in their shoes: Try to understand their challenges and perspective.
- Avoid comparison: Focus on the individual’s unique strengths.
- Share positive observations directly with the person: This encourages and uplifts them.
- Reframe negative thoughts: When tempted to criticize, challenge yourself to find something positive.
- Pray for a more compassionate perspective: Ask for help in seeing others as Jehovah sees them.
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